3 Strategies for Practicing Generational Intelligence

3 Strategies for Practicing Generational Intelligence

Generational intelligence is a vital skill for church leaders. Generational intelligence is the ability to connect with each generation in a way that honors their unique experiences and perspectives while maintaining a unified mission and identity. When you practice generational intelligence, you effectively bridge the generational gap within a church. You also expand your capacity to lead a multi-generational congregation. In this blog I will explain 3 strategies for practicing generational intelligence.

Before I delve into these practical strategies for meeting the diverse needs and experiences of different generations within a congregation, let me dispel a myth. We like to say that “children are the future of the church”. This is a myth on two levels. One, children or lack thereof are part of the present reality of the church. Two, if adults are not present to provide children support and guidance, then the church will not survive. That’s why understanding how to effectively lead a multi-generational congregation is vital to a growing church.

 

Understanding Generational Differences

The first step to practicing generational intelligence is to understand subtle generational differences. Unique historical events and cultural shifts shape each generation. Let’s take a look at a few examples:

The Greatest Generation, born before 1928, endured the Great Depression and World War II which instilled values of resilience and patriotism.

Baby Boomers, born from 1946 to 1964, lived through the Kennedy assassination, the Vietnam War, and cultural movements like Civil Rights, Gay Pride, and the Jesus revolution. They now face the challenge of balancing current needs with saving for the future.

Generation Y, or Millennials, born between 1981 and 1996, grew up with happily ever-after Disney movies while experiencing the impacts of 9/11, the invasion of Iraq, and the Great Recession. Social networking became a defining aspect of their lives.

Both Gen Z (born from 1997 to 2012) and Generation Alpha (born from 2010 to the present) encounter distinct challenges. They have come of age in the aftermath of events like 9/11, grappling with natural disasters and constant connection to the digital world. Their lives have been shaped by witnessing the global impact of the COVID-19 pandemic and the rise of social justice movements such as Black Lives Matter and March for Our Lives. Their worldview is influenced by extreme weather events, enforced isolation, and an uncertain future. Growing up in socially and politically divided environments, both generations are not inherently learning the value of compromise and cooperation.

By understanding the experiences and influences that shape each generation, you can better minister to the needs of different age groups.

 

3 Strategies for Generational Intelligence

To effectively lead a multi-generational congregation, church leaders must practice these 3 strategies for generational intelligence.

1) Embrace Diversity – Cultivate a church environment that embraces and celebrates a diverse range of opinions, experiences, and backgrounds. That means you’ll need to foster open dialogue, get to know the personal narratives of members, and acknowlede their distinctive contributions. This will go a long way toward valuing the different perspectives of each generation.

2) Seek Out Wisdom – Recognize the wisdom and knowledge that comes with diverse experiences. Seek input from individuals of different generations and actively listen to their perspectives to gain insight into how best to lead a diverse congregation.

3) Foster Intergenerational Relationships – Don’t just work with people similar to you in age. Connect with individuals of all ages and look for ways to build bridges between generations. This could include developing volunteer opportunities that span a range of ages or creating church activities that cater to both young and old alike. Older congregants can connect emotionally to youth by helping teach practical application activities like gardening and social belonging through civic involvement. Young adults can help less tech-savy elders by teaching them how to text, take videos, create avatars, and use new apps.

 

Applying Generational Intelligence

As you prioritize diverse generational perspectives, you are in a better position to reflect on your ministry. To meet the distinct needs of each generation, ask yourself the following questions:

How do the concerns of different generations impact a congregation and shape its culture?

How might each generation perceive God, church, and discipleship?

What perspectives can each generation contribute to the church?

Based on your answers, you now have insight into your next steps.

 

Next Steps

Leading across generations is a challenging but rewarding endeavor. Understanding the perspectives of others can shed light on not just our differences, but our similarities.  This crucial realization can open the eyes of all generations and ease your path to successfully leading a flourishing and healthy congregation.

If you’re seeking more strategies for practicing generational intelligence, let me invite you to my upcoming seminar – How Christian Ministries are Achieving Success: An Introduction to Creating a Culture of Renewal®. This seminar is a golden opportunity to delve deeper into the dynamics of thriving congregations and learn practical tools for fostering a culture of renewal within your ministry.

I look forward to seeing you there.

 

 

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What's in a Name?

Divese group of multicultural people isolated on white.Your congregation has up to six, maybe even seven, different generations in it.  While the oldest generation is unlikely to still be attending worship, they are still part of your congregation.  And the newest generation is on its way in.  Each generation is influenced by different historical events, technology, and expectations.
Do you know how to recognize who’s who, and what each age group needs? Click To Tweet It helps to know what’s in a name.*
GI Generation: Born from around 1900 through 1923, they came of age during the Great Depression. Also known as the Greatest Generation, this group includes the veterans who fought in World War II. Along with the Pioneers and Baby Boomers, nine out of ten GI’s describe the Bible as sacred. Duty and tradition are motivators for this generation.
Pioneer Generation: Born 1924 through 1944, this generation is generally recognized as the children of the Great Depression. It had a profound impact on their formative years. The American Dream was alive and well with many in this generation. With dedication and hard work, many found success in work and life. Feeling undervalued demotivates this generation; being part of an organization that does good motivates them.
Baby Boomer Generation: Born from approximately 1945 to 1963 following World War II, in a time that was marked by an increase in birth rates. In general, baby boomers are associated with a rejection or redefinition of traditional values. A relatively large number of young people became teenagers and young adults in the 1960s. They both fought in and demonstrated against the war in Vietnam. They gave rise to the Hippie movement and the Jesus People or Jesus Freaks movement, living in communes and advocating a return to simpler times. The genre “Christian music” grew out of this generation. They broke away from traditional church more so than any of their forebears. Respect and recognition for their efforts motivates this generation.
Gen X or Postmodern Generation: Born from approximately 1964-1980, they are shaped by the first Earth Day, the 1973 Oil Crisis, the end of the fall of the Berlin Wall, the end of the Cold War, the Challenger explosion and 9/11. Often the children of divorced parents, they are more open to religious, racial, ethnic, class, sexual orientation and gender identity diversity than any previous generation. Rather than challenge leaders, they tend to ignore them. They are educated, active, happy, balanced and family oriented. Not at all the “slacker” stereotype once attributed to this generation.
Many were babysat by the T.V., and as a result they rebelled against authority and tradition to a greater degree than had been previously seen. Since authority structures were not there for them as children, they question why they should play into this system now as adults. They prefer doing things their own way. While a significant number still participated in church activities, this generation increased the trend of falling away from religion.
Millennial Generation: Born somewhere from 1981-1999, they have been described as upbeat, team- playing, civic-minded, multi-tasking, and tech savvy. They are regularly in touch with their parents and many live at home due to high unemployment. Sometimes called the “Trophy Generation” or “Trophy Kids,” a term that reflects the trend in competitive sports, as well as many other aspects of life, where mere participation is frequently enough for a reward. They expect more from the workplace than generations before them: coaching, feedback, access to authority. This is good news for churches which thrive on making the above available.
In the US, the Millennials are more likely to be skeptical of religious institutions than their forebears, but still have a strong spiritual/religious sense. A recent poll by the Pew Research Center on religion and Millennials showed that 64% of Americans in this generation believe in God.
Digital Generation: Born around 2000. Also called the Internet Generation, they came into being at about the same time as the World Wide Web. Typically children of Postmoderns, they have but a faint recollection of 9/11. These world-aware children will be shaped by the Economic Crash of 2008, the 7 Billionth Baby, and drastically different weather patterns than previous generations.

  • They embrace technology and value human connections.
  • They are fluid in their ability to adapt to change. Even so they appreciate stability.
  • They see the spiritual all around them. God moments are not limited to Sunday mornings or church buildings.
  • They want to change the world. And often insist on social justice.
  • They are not fighting over environmental stewardship, whether or not global warming is real, full acceptance of women, gays, lesbians, and transgender people in the church, or whether or not to have friends of different ethnicities and races. Generally, they accept these as given. Even so, they are susceptible to prejudice, racism, sexism, heterosexism, greed, and selfishness—just like the rest of us.

You may have noticed that the above information doesn’t necessarily fit your family, culture, or life experience. Or that of the families you serve. Even as generational experiences vary by country and culture, 1989 marks a milestone year. As the Berlin Wall came down, and a youth revolt took hold, more of the world looked to American culture for economic, cultural, and technological cues.   In the generations before 1989, differences abounded in world cultures. Post-1989, however, a global shift occurred; and American culture became a strong focus.   From 1989 onward, generational experiences may be more confluent with American experiences, regardless of culture.
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If you are interested in learning more about how to lead a vibrant multi-generational congregation, Creating a Culture of Renewal is for you. Gain the emotional intelligence to interact with all kinds of people. Look deeply at the life of Jesus, his world-changing vision, and how he implemented it. You will learn a step by step process for crafting and implementing a Kingdom-oriented vision that expands assumptions about what is possible in your setting.
* Much of the generational research used in this article has been drawn from Wikipedia.