5 Ways to Fail Forward in 2023

5 Ways to Fail Forward in 2023

As a church leader, you have essential responsibilities. Not only do you need to preach and guide your congregation, but you also ensure that the church runs smoothly.

Not everything you try in 2023 will succeed. That’s okay. In fact, it’s important to have some failures under your belt. Especially if it means that you jumped in and tried things, but still missed the mark.

Remember Newton’s first law of motion: Objects in motion tend to stay in motion whereas objects at rest tend to stay at rest. Once you get your congregation in motion, you’ll have a better chance of steering them in a positive direction, even if your first efforts don’t result in total success.

Because the truth is that without the freedom to fail, you are less likely to succeed. If failure is unacceptable, then you won’t risk much. Risk, as an act of faith, is required for success, especially for church leaders.

To get you started on that forward momentum, I offer these five ways to “fail forward”.

 

#1 Have a Clear Vision

Why is a clear vision important enough to risk failure? Because personal and organizational renewal begins with vision. In fact, this is one of the foundational principles we teach in Creating a Culture of Renewal®.

Churches flounder when they don’t have a strong sense of what they’re being called to do. Crafting a clear vision is important work for church leaders. Vision focuses your efforts and guides you and your congregation together into the future.

To get a clear vision of what your church is being called to do, tap into Jesus’ big dream: “Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.” With Jesus’ dream in mind, ask God to show you and your people how you can make a difference in the community such that it would be a sign of the Kingdom.  These steps can guide you in making sure your vision is focused outward instead of inward.

 

#2 Keep Up with Technology

Technology is here to stay. Using it well can help your church engage current members more effectively as well as reach new audiences. If you started to use technology during the pandemic to livestream services and offer online giving, keep it up. If you haven’t started yet, now is the time. It’s worth trying, even if you fail. I can’t tell you how many times I have goofed up doing a Facebook Live. I keep going because it’s worth failing at in order to eventually succeed. The truth is that people expect more tech options now, not less.

One way to keep up with technology is to surround yourself with those who know more than you do. Learn from them how to bridge the gap between religious traditions and digital innovation. Although you may not like the negative influences of technology—like incivility and sensationalism—it’s even worse to turn a blind eye to its influence. Better to try harnessing it for good, and failing, than not trying at all.

 

#3 Increase Your Leadership Skillset

As a leader, it’s crucial to keep on learning. One way to increase your skillset is by attending conferences or seminars on church leadership topics such as team building or conflict resolution. Another way to increase your skillset is by reading books and blogs related to church leadership topics. You’ll learn how others approach the problems you face and discover emerging best practices.

People and times change. How you interact with those you lead has to also change. What worked 10 or 20 years ago may not work today.  If you are not keeping up with ever-evolving ideas and trends, then you are not intentionally growing as a leader.

Reverse mentoring is an excellent way to sharpen your skills. Reverse mentoring involves learning from younger generations. Find someone in your congregation who represents a younger age demographic and ask them if they will mentor you. Not only will you blow their mind, but chances are good you’ll learn new things you did not know before.

Can you know everything there is to know as a leader? No. But trying and failing forward is the right direction to head.

 

#4 Develop Financially Sound Strategies

Churches need to be financially sound to succeed in the long run. Effective church leaders work to develop strategies to help their churches remain economically stable. This could include developing pledge campaigns, setting aside funds for unexpected expenses, or investing in equipment or technology upgrades when necessary.

One of the trends that will be coming to mainline churches in the coming years is diversifying your income sources to make ends meet. There are many ways to do this. Look into grants, endowments, crowdfunding campaigns, innovative fundraising efforts, and creating community partnerships, which I write about in Forging a New Path. Think of 2023 as the year to feel more comfortable engaging in financial conversations, and to create an economically stable church.

While you might not meet all of your financial goals in 2023, paying attention now will sharpen your ability to meet those goals in the future. Put your best efforts forward here. Even if you fail.

 

#5 Focus on Member Engagement

Engaging members is critical when it comes to leading a thriving church. Focus on engaging your members more effectively through the basics: Bible studies, prayer initiatives, and community service projects. These basics provide the foundation upon which member engagement moves the church into transformational experiences.

Historically, the church’s educational process has been rooted in knowledge retention. Yet Biblical literacy is spotty among members. Think  about ways to make education experiential in 2023.

For instance, there’s a growing trend of churches launching “lab” experiences to encourage members to explore their faith and to cultivate spiritual growth. Use your creativity to develop ways to engage church members in meaningful conversations and activities that foster spiritual growth and connection.

Again, you may not fully succeed. But moving in this direction will ensure that if you fail, you are failing forward.

 

Your Next Step

Next, choose one of the above five ways to fail forward in 2023, and get going!  This is going to be a pivotal year for the church. Your willingness to risk, whether you succeed or fail, will bring needed energy and faith to your congregation.

No matter which path you choose, though, you don’t have to go it alone. In fact, joining a community of learners is one of the best ways to ensure that failures can morph into successes. Grow in skill and confidence as together we learn 3 Steps to Engage Conflict Productively. I’ll be with you on the journey.

 

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Looking Back in Order to Move Forward

Looking Back in Order to Move Forward

It’s that time of year again.  It’s time to look back and reflect on the year past in order to move forward into the new  year. In these last few days of the year, I want to encourage you to finish strong. I recommend that you hit the pause button to reflect on your growth as an apostle of Jesus over the past 12 months. A new year brings new opportunities for spiritual growth, but first, it’s important to reflect on what you have accomplished in the last year. Offer yourself the gift of looking back as the year draws to a close.

Why bother? Reflecting on and completing the year past clears an open space from which to freely jump into the next year. Avoiding or refusing to pause and reflect won’t allow you to truly recognize how far you’ve come, or to note prayers that God answered.

In doing my own year-end reflections, I like to use the “5 Quantum Leaps of Faith” to see where I grew. These leaps are grounded in the Bible and exemplified by Jesus Himself. Best of all, each leap moves you from discipleship to apostleship.

As you read through the following five leaps, score yourself, on a scale of one to five, so that you can quantitatively see what you can celebrate and where you can stretch. Give yourself 1 point if you can answer “yes” to a question, 3 points if you can say “yes” for multiple instances, and 5 points if you feel that you consciously made a point to do each on a continual basis. Then we’ll tally up the results at the end.

This is a great model to use to engage your leadership team or church committee.  Remember to include and acknowledge the leaps your people have made as well.  Like a long-jumper, measure even the smallest advances and remember that gradual growth leads to exponential gains.

Finally, I recommend that you document your growth. Creating a visible record of your progress solidifies the gains you made and clarifies gaps you can close in the coming year. Get creative and have fun celebrating how far you have come.

leap of faith

Now, let’s take a look at the 5 Leaps of Faith I’m talking about.

 

Leap #1: Be fruitful and multiply like Jesus

There’s more to following Jesus than emulating the spiritual principles He taught. You are also called to emulate Him by multiplying yourself. This comes by passing on your Kin(g)dom vision and values to the people you lead.

  1. Did you delegate to involve people in new ways?
  2. Did you contribute to the growth of the kin(g)dom by sharing power and authority with those who wished to grow?
  3. Did you freely share a vision and employ those around you to help move it forward?

 

Leap #2: Be empowered like Jesus

One of the most Jesus-like practices that a Christian leader can embrace is to be empowered and empower others. Lord knows we all need it. Jesus shared His authority freely and authorized His followers again and again to do the very things He did.

  1. Did you feel empowered to act?
  2. Did you say yes to Jesus and accept the freedom and authority He gives?
  3. Did you follow the promptings of the Spirit?

 

Leap #3: Be accountable like Jesus

Jesus was accountable to the one He called Father for fulfilling His call and He was rewarded mightily. When we become accountable for our own giftedness and potential, we can begin to live fully into the gifts we’ve received.

  1. Did you recognize and use what you’ve been taught?
  2. Did you employ your spiritual gifts?
  3. Did you maximize the gift of time by saying yes and no to the right things?

 

Leap #4: Believe like Jesus

Jesus makes it clear that He wants us to have the same kind of faith He Himself has.

He teaches His followers to not only have faith in Him, but to have the faith like Him. Every time we participate in miracle-making, just as the apostles did, we are demonstrating Christ-like faith.

  1. Did you act on the belief that your life has purpose?
  2. Did you live in partnership with God?
  3. Did you contribute to any miracle making?

 

Leap #5: Love like Jesus

Jesus practiced the holy trinity of love: love of God, love of neighbor and love of self. Love is an action and a commitment, based on being Christ-like. When we practice self-hate, self-neglect, self-abasement, or self-denigration, we harm and damage ourselves.  When we practice self-love, we increase our ability to love others.

  1. Did you grow in self-love this year?
  2. Did you offer love and grace to others, even when you didn’t want to?
  3. Did you surrender negativity to God?

Now that you have inventoried your growth, let’s add up your points to see where you stand.

  • 60 – 75 points: Rock on! You’re in the zone.
  • 40 – 59 points: You’re on the right track, keep going!
  • 20 – 39 points: You’re getting there; look for places you can stretch in the coming year.
  • 0 – 19 points: Are you giving yourself enough credit? If there’s room for improvement, what better time to start than today?

No matter what your score is, this is the time to celebrate and to stretch. A great way to stretch in the new year is to grow in self-awareness. Expand your emotional intelligence by joining me for the timely Platinum Rule Leadership for Changing Times workshop, where you’ll do just that. The first session begins on January 6.

Happy New Year! Here’s to a year of quantum leaps of faith for us all.

 

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