The Unhindered Prayer: Allowing God’s Answers to Reach You
In my first blog of this series, we talked about how your prayers have power, even in a time of fear and uncertainty. We looked at five principles for powerful prayer, especially the promise that when you believe like Jesus, you can ask for whatever you want. Today, I want to address the biggest obstacle: What happens when your prayers go unanswered? We often pray, ask, and even persist, yet the answer never seems to arrive.
You’ve prayed deeply. You’ve persisted. You’ve even put feet on your prayers through action. But blessing hasn’t arrived, and the mountain hasn’t moved. This leaves you with a painful question: Does this mean I failed? Does this mean God said “no”?
The Myth That We Know What the Answer Should Be
The real problem is not in God’s willingness to answer, but in the ability to allow the answer to reach us. Our own fears, doubts, and self-limiting beliefs can stop or derail God’s answer. A blessing already put on the conveyor belt for you. If you don’t genuinely believe you deserve or can handle the answered prayer, your own mind is working against your prayer life.
The Story of The Mug
The scriptures tell us Jesus believed his prayers had power. He constantly withdrew to solitary places to pray—not because he needed to know God’s will, but because he knew this communication was essential to their Divine Partnership. He even taught his disciples to pray, showing that the power wasn’t just his alone.
Years ago, I struggled with this idea of answered prayer. I had been praying for something small—something inconsequential that wouldn’t “trip the wires of self-doubt.” I prayed for a mug. I practiced believing I had received it by visualizing it and rehearsing the feeling of happiness. After about a week, I forgot about it.
Three or four weeks later, a man I didn’t recognize rang my doorbell and handed over a misshapen, handmade blue coffee mug. “This mug is for you,” he said. “I made it for you… I just never got around to stopping by.” I beamed, suddenly remembering my prayer. My prayer had been answered, just weeks later.
That small act, receiving that simple mug, taught me everything about the Conveyor Belt Principle. I asked, God answered, and because I wasn’t obsessing or doubting, I allowed the blessing to make its way to me.
Intention, Surrender, and Faith
To allow your answered prayers to reach you, you have to actively weed out the doubt and adopt intentionality.
- The Conveyor Belt Principle
I visualize prayer working like a constant conveyor belt of blessing and abundance flowing from God to us. The moment you ask, the answer is plopped onto that belt. You ask; God answers.
But what if you second-guess your request? What if you worry you can’t integrate the new state of affairs the answered prayer brings? If these doubts are strong enough, they can slow down, stop, or even reverse the conveyor belt. You are unintentionally working at cross purposes with your own deepest desires.
- Surrender and Adopt
To stop derailing your own blessings, you need to revisit your inner commitments. Intentionality means aligning your beliefs with your request.
- Surrender: Ask yourself: What attitudes, fears, behaviors, or activities do I need to surrender so Jesus can answer my prayers and I can see God’s answer? This list will contain the self-limiting thought patterns that have hindered you for years.
- Adopt: Ask yourself: What attitudes, affirmations, behaviors, and practices do I need to adopt so God can answer my prayers?
To believe like Jesus, you must commit to surrendering the first set and adopting the second.
- Weed Out the Doubt
You need focus and clarity to keep a clear prayer request before God.
- Name the Doubt: Begin to notice and name the nagging doubts that accompany your prayers. Don’t suppress them; acknowledge them.
- Return the Doubt: As you name these doubts, return them to God on a different conveyor belt.
- Refocus on Joy: Then, refocus on joyfully receiving whatever you have asked for in prayer. Ask God to strengthen your faith and increase your belief.
“Break” or “Block”?
A note of caution. In today’s world and society, we engage in a lot of time-wasting activities like endless scrolling or obsessive gaming. You probably think of these as just harmless breaks, thinking, “I’m just relaxing my mind.”
The reality? When these breaks become an obsession that takes longer than you can afford, they become a blockage. You’re not just relaxing; you’re numbing your heart and spirit with adrenaline and dopamine hits, which dull your awareness of God’s quiet answers and your capacity to act on them.
Next Steps/Takeaways
Your soul is hardwired for union with God, for greatness, and for co-creating miracles. When you allow your soul to lead the way in communicating with God, your prayers will take on new meaning and power. You’re advancing from disciple to apostle.
Answer the Call: Believe in your prayers as Jesus does. Believe that God has already said “Yes” to you. Then, allow God to answer your prayers in God’s own way and time.
Practice: See everything that happens in your life—that new opportunity, that unexpected gift, those sudden circumstances—as an answer to a prayer.
To deepen your understanding and capacity for apostolic prayer, I invite you to join me at an upcoming spiritual retreat: Epiphany: Manifesting the Miraculous.
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