3 Ways to Know Your Church is Ready for Change

3 Ways to Know Your Church is Ready for Change

by | Jul 8, 2024

So, you just landed a new appointment. Congratulations!

Settling into a new church family is exciting, but it can also stir up some big questions. One of the biggest: how long should you wait before you start making changes to the status quo?

It would be great if I could snap my fingers and give you a number of months after which your congregation would be ready for change. But we all know that kind of magical thinking won’t be helpful. I can, however, offer three practical ways to know when your church is ready.

First, let me help you debunk a common myth that circles the church world; the myth that you should wait at least a year before making any changes.

 

1 Year Too Late

I can’t count the number of times during my ministry journey that I heard the advice “Wait a year before you make any changes.” Which was most often followed by, “They need to adjust to you first,” and, “Making changes will turn them against you.”

Here’s the thing: the myth of the “do-nothing” first year can hold you back. Sure, some adjustments take time. But a healthy church is a growing church, and growth often requires change.

Does this mean run in and re-write an entire year’s worth of programming your first month? No. What it does mean is that it is your responsibility as the new leader to become attuned to the needs of your congregation and make the necessary changes to avoid potential decline, while facilitating renewal.

 

3 Ways to Know Your Church is Ready for Change

So, how do you know if your new congregation is ready to embrace new ideas, even with a fresh face in the pulpit? Here are some tips to help you start directing your congregation towards change.

1) Listen: First things first: soak it all in! In my blog last week, we talked about listening as an important first step in building relationships within your new church. While you’re listening to their joys, challenges, hopes and dreams for the church, take a minute to ask them what they’re passionate about? Do they have concerns about changes you might be thinking of making? Are there whispers of “we used to do it this way” that might be holding things back?

Does your church board or leadership team actively seek your input? Are they receptive to your ideas, even if they differ from past practices? Are people talking (or complaining!) about feeling disconnected from the church’s message or methods? Listen for these signs that they’re ready to collaborate on positive change.

Then, talk to them about what you hear. You won’t get the full picture without listening, then talking to people about the church’s needs.

 

2) Watch: Is there a sense of “been there, done that” in the air? Are Sunday services more of a routine than a source of inspiration? Apathy can be a sign that people are hungry for something new.

Sometimes, the desire for change isn’t spoken, but simmering just beneath the surface. Look for those moments when eyes light up during discussions, or when folks readily volunteer for new initiatives. This enthusiasm is a green light – your congregation might just be waiting for someone to light that spark and watch it grow into a flame of change!

 

3) Act: Are attendance numbers steady, but not growing? Or are they dropping? Is there a specific demographic under-represented? Do younger generations feel connected? Do you even have youth and children among your congregation?

Maybe your church is already running successful outreach programs, but there’s a buzz about wanting to do more. A desire for growth is a natural indicator that the church is ready to adapt, reach new people, and make some changes.

So, get involved!  Join both church groups and community outreach that your church is taking part in already and expand upon it. And don’t forget to get your family involved!  Your partner and children, if you have them, are a vital component of your new church community, too.

 

A couple of bonus tips: Effective change, like building relationships, does take time. But it doesn’t have to take a year. Only you can tell how long it will take to make a real connection with your congregation, understand their needs, and then shepherd them towards a shared vision for the future.

Starting the process of change isn’t about a complete overhaul. Start small, gather input through surveys or focus groups, and concentrate on areas where there’s the most openness. The key is to be open, listen actively, and trust that the Holy Spirit will guide you and your congregation on this exciting journey of growth together.

Also, keep in mind that your congregation will have ideas too! All ideas for change don’t need to come from you. In fact, once they’ve embraced the plan to change, most of them may come from your new church family.

Your leadership, combined with the congregation’s openness and creativity, can take a stagnant or slow-growing congregation and create a thriving church community.

Looking for more ideas to bring about change and growth? Join Readiness 4 Renewal, a group coaching opportunity where you’ll explore and learn to engage specific and proven leadership skills that will promote renewal in your ministry setting.

 

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Building New Relationships: 4 Strategies for Church Leaders in Transition

Building New Relationships: 4 Strategies for Church Leaders in Transition

by | Jul 2, 2024

In the past couple of weeks, we’ve looked at the emotions that surround appointment season in the United Methodist Church, both your possible struggles with finding closure at the church you are leaving and the emotional upset your family may be experiencing due to the move. We’ve talked about how to navigate both issues with the best possible outcomes. To wrap up this blog series I’d like to take a look at four strategies for building new relationships, especially for church leaders in transition.

Let’s face it, a successful ministry hinges on connection. But transitions can be tough. Front and center for many of us is the question: how do I build strong relationships with this new church family? New faces, new routines, and the pressure to build strong connections quickly – it’s enough to make even the most outgoing pastor sweat a little.

And that’s where the misconception that you can just saunter right into your new appointment and the congregation will welcome you with open arms, comes in.

 

Building New Relationships Takes Time

Building strong, solid relationships takes time, but the rewards far outweigh the effort. Keep in mind that your new congregation may have had a deep connection with their previous clergy. They might be sad and frustrated that a leader they loved is gone.

Or, as sometimes happens, they may have had a negative experience. Maybe they just never clicked with the pastor who’s left. They might be wary of a new leader, hesitant in their acceptance of you, wanting to test the waters before really welcoming you in

But there are strategies you can use to help make the transition easier on you, your family, and your new congregation and church home.

1) Be a Listening Ear (and Remember Those Names!)

People want to be heard, not lectured at. So, when you meet those smiling faces at your first potluck, resist the urge to launch into a five-year vision plan. Instead, ask questions! What are the joys and challenges of this church community? What are their hopes for the future?

Schedule one-on-one meetings with key church members – council leaders, committee chairs, even folks you meet at coffee hour. Grab a plate of donuts at the next church breakfast, find a comfy corner, and become an active listener. You’ll learn a ton, and folks will appreciate your genuine interest.

Keep in mind that the most active members of the church aren’t always the most vocal. They may not be interested in being on council or sitting through hours-long meetings. But that doesn’t mean they’re just warming the pews – they may actually be the people who do the work and make things happen. So, keep an eye and ear open for those key leaders, too!

2) Find Common Ground

Look for shared passions! Do you have a love for gardening? See if there’s a community garden or a church garden project you can join.

Are you a music buff? Connect with the choir director! He or she may be looking to shake it up a bit; listen, listen, listen for hints of ways to grow and renew your congregation!

Finding common ground is a fantastic way to build rapport and create a sense of community. Take some time to discover the unique strengths and passions of your new church. What ministries are thriving? What are some hidden talents lurking amongst the congregation? Building on existing strengths is a great way to show you value their traditions while also subtly weaving in your own ideas.

3) Lead by Serving

Actions speak louder than words. Offer to help with a church cleanup day, volunteer at a local soup kitchen alongside church members, or simply lend a hand with setting up for events. Showing you’re willing to roll up your sleeves speaks volumes about your commitment and leadership style.

And, don’t forget to include your family in your actions!  They are a vital part of your new church community, too.

4) Celebrate the Wins (Big and Small!)

A little recognition goes a long way. Acknowledge milestones, birthdays, achievements, and even small victories. A handwritten note or a public shout-out can make a big difference in creating a positive and supportive church environment. Did your youth group finally reach their fundraising goal? Did you have a record turnout for a Wednesday night service?

Taking the time to acknowledge and celebrate successes, no matter how seemingly insignificant, will go a long way toward fostering positive feelings between you and your new people.

 

Remember, building relationships takes time and intentionality. Be patient, be present, and most importantly, be yourself. With a little effort, you’ll be well on your way to growing a  vibrant and thriving church community in your new appointment.

As a clergy member, building relationships also takes Conscious Leadership. Mastering your mindset in relationship to others, tapping into your spiritual intelligence, and employing the courage of imagination to envision and bring new realities to life. If you would like to learn how to build the capacity to engage in life fully, my program Conscious Leadership might be for you. Contact me for a personalized one-on-one Discovery Session to find out more.

 

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5 Tips for Balancing Family Life During Leadership Transitions

5 Tips for Balancing Family Life During Leadership Transitions

by | Jun 21, 2024

It’s appointment season in the United Methodist Church. Changes in appointments can be disruptive to home and family life, especially if the move isn’t just across town. Balancing family life during leadership transition is a vital part of the process.

In last week’s blog, I discussed the emotional rollercoaster that comes with clergy transitions. And the very real sense of loss that can accompany leaving a church community behind. This week, I am going to take a look at the toll transitions can have on your own family. Packing up and moving, or even simply changing churches in the same town, can be just as disruptive for your spouse and children as it is for you.

Before we talk about how to support your family during your appointment change, we need to address the misconception that appointment season affects you more than them!

 

Tipped Scales

During, and for some time after you move, your stress levels are likely to skyrocket. This can create a tense atmosphere at home, impacting everyone’s emotional well-being. The long hours and unexpected meetings will likely disrupt established family routines. Quality family time might take a backseat which can leave your family feeling lost or uncertain about their own place in the new dynamic.

Keep in mind that you, as clergy, have a purpose. This path is your choice and you welcome and accept it. But each member of your family will experience their own feelings and responses to change. Your spouse, like you, has likely been very active in your church community. He or she is leaving them, too; as well as their close friends outside of church.  While your partner is supporting you in the transition, are your partner and your family’s feelings getting lost in the shuffle?

As you’re practicing self-care for your own emotional upsets, the scale may tip with the weight of the move on your family’s emotions.

 

5 Tips for Balancing Family Life

It’s not always easy to bring the emotional scale into balance, but I’ve got some tips that have helped both me, and pastor friends, through years of appointment transitions.

1) Acknowledge Their Feelings: Your partner and family have seen how the upcoming move has affected you. Chances are they’ve supported you through appointment changes before. Maybe transitions in the past haven’t gone well, or easily.

But you can make this one go as smoothly as possible by acknowledging that your family is also experiencing the anxiety and stress of change. Acknowledge how this disrupts them, too. Really listen to their concerns. And reassure them that you’ll get through this together.

 

2) Involve Them in the Process: Let your family know you value their input. Discuss how you can adjust schedules or responsibilities to accommodate the changes.

Make sure to find what they need and love in your new area. The public library or swimming pool, the nearest playground, pottery classes, dance schools, sports clubs. The quicker they get involved, the easier their adjustment.

 

3) Family Time, Revamped: The transition might disrupt your usual routines. Rethink family time – maybe it’s shorter bursts of quality time throughout the day instead of long, pre-planned outings.

This is a perfect chance to hit the reset button and create new family routines and traditions. Brainstorm ideas together – a weekly game night, a family movie marathon, or even a dedicated “check-in” time where everyone shares their highs and lows of the week.

Creating new traditions adds a special twist to a change that may not always feel like a lot of fun!

 

4) Reassure the Kids: If you have children, they may blame you for tearing them away from best friends, sports teams, and dance lessons. Try telling an upcoming high school senior that he’s moving to another state and changing schools! He’s been the newcomer before and he may have dared to imagine that he’d be graduating with people he knew.

Young ones don’t have the years of experience to understand that they’ll make new and lasting friendships. Focus on the adventure of seeing new places and meeting new people.

But don’t minimize their loss; leaving friends can hit young lives profoundly.

 

5) Prioritize Self-Care (For Everyone!): Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup. Make self-care a priority for yourself and your family. Schedule relaxing activities, encourage healthy habits, and don’t be afraid to ask for help when you, your partner, or your children, need it.

 

Remember, leadership transitions are a marathon, not a sprint. By following these tips and working together as a unit, your family can not only survive this transition but emerge stronger. Transitions of all kinds are a normal part of life and open communication, empathy, and a little creativity can go a long way in balancing a healthy family life with your appointment change.

 

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5 Steps to Finding Closure: Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster of Changing Appointments

5 Steps to Finding Closure: Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster of Changing Appointments

by | Jun 17, 2024

This is appointment season in my home denomination, the United Methodist Church. When that new appointment is made, it’s natural to feel a rollercoaster of emotions. Excitement for the future mixes with pangs of grief at the thought of leaving those with whom you’ve built loving relationships. Or perhaps, there’s more than a little bit of relief at leaving a church that wasn’t a great fit.

Is it possible to find closure while navigating an emotional transition as a church leader? Rest assured, grief, or relief or anger or frustration when changing appointments is a natural part of the process. In this article I’ll lay out the steps to finding closure by navigating the emotional rollercoaster of changing appointments.

But before we start looking at ways to find closure at the church you’re leaving, let’s dispel one common misconception: that you and your congregation can quickly shift appointments without any consequences.

 

A Little Like a Break-Up

In the United Methodist church, you could easily be expected to preach in one location the last Sunday in June, and in the new location the first Sunday of July, without a backward glance. On paper, that’s doable. But in reality, there will be some emotional consequences.

As a clergy person, you pour your heart and soul into your church community. You celebrate baptisms, officiate weddings, hold hands through grief. Your congregants aren’t just names on a church directory; they’re your extended family. So, the news of a new appointment can feel…well, let’s be honest, a little bit like a break-up. There are going to be strong emotions. It’s all perfectly normal, friends. Transitions are tough, and moving on from one church family to another is no exception. That is true whether the relationship was solid and lifegiving, or fractious and challenging.  Either way, you’ll need time to process what happened before you can fully move on.

Just like with any break-up, closure is key.

 

Navigating My Own Rollercoaster

I served as a pastor for 12 years. My first two appointments were in the Denver area. The metro area seemed to be a good fit for me. I had plenty of friends and connections in the Denver area, important for a single woman like me. So when the Wyoming District Superintendent called me to serve as a pastor in Rawlins Wyoming, I was less than excited. The landscape seemed barren, not to mention the social life, and the largest employer was the state penitentiary. After 12 years in Metro Denver, I wasn’t sure I was cut out for a town with a population of 9500 and what felt like eternal cold wind blowing more than half the year. You can read more about how that phone call changed the trajectory of my life here. I was resistant to change, and afraid of the emotional rollercoaster that came with it.

I made the move though, and these five steps to finding closure helped me do it successfully.

 

Step 1: Acknowledge Your Feelings: Don’t bottle them up! Talk to your spouse, a trusted friend, or even a therapist. Allow yourself to feel the grief, the confusion, even the anger.

Your feelings are all valid.

You might be feeling relief and excitement about your new appointment. That’s ok; many of us have been there. There are times when we are appointed to a church that wasn’t quite the right fit for us.

You may be feeling that you’d “failed” at your last appointment. But you didn’t fail – and your congregation didn’t fail. You just weren’t right for each other.

And that can happen with any relationship.  So hang on to the feeling of excitement about your new appointment and let the negative feelings of the past go.

 

Step 2: Celebrate the Journey: Gather photos, write down cherished memories, or organize a farewell potluck. This act of remembering creates a space for gratitude and helps solidify the positive impact you’ve made.

Invite the broader community if you’ve engaged them throughout your time at the church. It’s important for them to know that they were an integral part of your journey too, and that your congregation is in transition.

They can help in ways that you might not even have thought of, being there for your church members in times of need, and welcoming them to community events, even after you’re gone.

 

Step 3: Focus on the Legacy: You may be leaving, but the seeds you’ve sown will continue to grow. Reflect on the positive changes you’ve helped create in your congregation, the lives touched, the spirits lifted.

That’s your legacy and it’s something of which to be incredibly proud.

Again, if you’re leaving a congregation that didn’t mesh with your style, or one that fought your every new idea, closure can still be hard.  But be encouraged that chances are your next appointment will welcome you with open arms and embrace your special energy, ideas, and empowering action!

 

Step 4: Leave with Grace: Take the time to have individual conversations with those who’ve been instrumental in your journey. Thank them for their support, share your well wishes, and offer an open door for future connection. Connect with those who were not supporters and thank them for challenging you and opening your mind to new ideas. Whether friend or foe, bless them. In order to do this, you will need to forgive yourself and others for what did not work out well. Clean out your personal papers, and leave a clear paper trail for your successor. It probably goes without saying, but this is not the time to take revenge, teach anyone a lesson, or sabotage their future.

 

Step 5: Embrace the New Beginning: This change, though it may be bittersweet, is an opportunity for growth. Approach your next congregation with a loving heart and a willingness to learn. If you’ve had a positive experience, made new friends, forged inroads into community connections, and built your congregation into a vibrant, growing, difference-making group of faithful people, it’s going to be hard to leave them.

But, who knows? You might just create an even more beautiful tapestry at your new appointment!

 

Remember, leaving one place for the next likely comes feelings of loss. Yes, you’ve built something special together, and even though your paths now diverge, the connections you’ve made will always hold a cherished place in your heart. But by seeking closure, you can move forward with peace, gratitude, and the unwavering faith that God will continue to guide you on this amazing journey called ministry.

Over the next few weeks, I’ll be addressing other components of navigating the emotional rollercoaster of changing appointments including balancing self-care and family life during the transition, and building relationships at your new church.

Moving on is a chance for new beginnings, both for you and for your church family. Embrace the excitement of a new chapter, but don’t forget to take the time to say goodbye with grace and love.

Now, let’s chat! Share your experiences with goodbyes in the comments below. How did you find closure when you transitioned to a new church? What advice would you offer to others as they face new horizons?

 

 

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Simple Ways Your Church Can Be a Heatwave Haven

Simple Ways Your Church Can Be a Heatwave Haven

by | Jun 10, 2024

Summer has arrived and while we might be dreaming of barbecues and vacations, let’s not forget our most vulnerable neighbors. Extreme weather is a part of the new normal – we’ve all seen the news – deadly tornadoes, devastating storms, the heat dome in the Southwest, and recent news that May was the twelfth straight month of record warm temperatures on the planet.

When temps soar to dangerous levels, we have homes to find comfort in. With a flip of a switch we can turn on the AC and grab a glass of ice water. But what about our unhoused community members who have no shelter? Or those who do, but can’t afford the luxuries most of us take for granted?

Before I discuss some tips to help our vulnerable neighbors during extreme heat, let’s take a look at a common roadblock that might stop you from acting. The misconception that you aren’t equipped to help.

 

You Can Do This

With limited access to water, shade, and air conditioning, facing extreme heat can be a matter of life or death. Churches are at the forefront of being equipped to help provide relief from the heat. They can become a cool, safe space to find comfort and a chance to rest. It only takes two or three people in short shifts to hand out water and assist with the needs of those suffering from the heat. Many churches also have established relationships with community organizations that can help with both supplies and volunteers.

 

Simple Ways Your Church Can Be a Heatwave Haven

Here are some simple ways that you can offer relief to those who need it most during this summer’s next heat wave in your area:

First things first: hydration. Dehydration during a heat wave can be deadly. One solution is to offer your church as a water bottle refill station. If the resources exist, hand out reusable water bottles with your church’s information.

If your church isn’t in a location that’s easy for those without transportation to visit, go to them.  Gather a Hydration for the Homeless taskforce and fill a couple of car back seats or pick-up beds with cases of water and reusable bottles, and drive to where you most often see the homeless. Ask those you encounter where others in need might be gathered.

Schedule days and times when your task force volunteers will be out in the community so folks know when to expect you. This can literally be a life-saving mission.

 

Cool down havens. Does your church have a big hall or a basement that stays nice and cool? It can be opened up as a cooling center during the hottest parts of the day. Offer comfy chairs, board games, and healthy snacks to replenish lost essential nutrients.

Sometimes even a restroom and basic hygiene supplies can go a long way to a person living in the elements every day. Provide a safe space to escape the heat and find some fellowship.

Ask your congregation to donate packages of basic essentials like toothpaste, toothbrushes, disposable wipes, sunscreen, band-aids, and put them in easily portable packets for your guests to take with them when they go.

Again, set a schedule where those in need know when your doors will be open to them.

 

Remember, we can’t do it all alone! Partner with other organizations in your community. Reach out to local stores for bulk discounts and stock a fridge with cool, refreshing water. Homeless shelters, soup kitchens, and social service agencies are often overwhelmed and understocked during the summer months and could use some help.

Ask what they need most and organize a donation drive.

 

And let’s not forget the power of a listening ear. A kind word, a friendly face – sometimes that’s all it takes to make someone feel seen. Encourage your congregation to volunteer at the cooling center, or simply chat with folks who come in for a refill. You never know, a conversation might be the first step towards getting someone the help they need.

And ASK! The homeless, and those whose finances don’t allow for air conditioning and other essentials during the hot summer months, know what they need most. It’s not about grand gestures, it’s about showing up with open hearts and helping hands. Cooling those less fortunate during these very hot summer months is love in action.

 

Want to take the next step in engaging your congregation and community outside of worship? Readiness 4 Renewal is a group coaching opportunity that will empower you to enrich your congregation and community in ways that you might not have imagined. My Senior Faculty member, Bonnie Marden, is offering a 30 minute Discovery Session if you’d like to learn more about impacting your ministry, your congregation, and your community.

 

 

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Bridging the Generation(al) Gap

Bridging the Generation(al) Gap

by | May 29, 2024

We know that there are significant benefits to younger generations interacting with their predecessors. Children learn empathy and compassion from their elders. And the little ones bring energy, joy and fresh perspectives to the senior generations.

Older children and teens, too, benefit from intergenerational activities.  Youth can sometimes feel a little left out – too old for the extra attention given to the littles, but not yet able to take part in adult activities. Their experiences with the elderly are essential and can create lifelong friendships.

Sadly, except in grandparent/grandchild situations, the two ends of the age spectrum – those closest to birth and those closest to death – rarely interact. To the detriment of both groups.

Before I suggest ways to create a more vibrant church community, let’s expel a common myth about the generation gap. The myth that this gap makes it impossible for younger and older people to work together effectively.

 

Cross-Generational Conundrum

The idea that the generational gap in churches makes it impossible for younger and older people to work together effectively can manifest in beliefs like:

  • Younger generations aren’t interested in church: This overlooks the many young people who are actively involved in faith-based activities and service.
  • Older generations don’t understand new ideas: This ignores the many older adults who are open to new approaches and value the energy younger people bring.
  • They have different communication styles: While there may be some differences, open communication and a focus on shared goals can bridge these.

This myth can be harmful because it hinders collaboration and prevents churches from benefiting from the strengths of all age groups.

 

A Multi-Generational Shift

We may be comfortable doing comfort ministries, but will that cut it when it comes to creating vibrant, multi-generational congregations? The truth is, we HAVE multi-generational congregations; they just aren’t necessarily vibrant. And sometimes, we have clusters of generations at opposite ends of the age spectrum with large gaps in the middle.

It takes a special kind of emotional intelligence to work with multiple generations. Many church leaders have learned this skill for their own congregations in my three-year leadership development program, Creating a Culture of Renewal®. One of these leaders, Rev. JoAnne Holder of Mt. Plymouth African Methodist Episcopal Church in Felton, Delaware, came into Creating a Culture of Renewal® wanting to adopt and adapt her leadership style to better serve her congregation and community.

After completing her first year in the program, Rev. Holder learned that her congregation, with congregants ranging in age from 90 years to 5 years, were very eager to be in worship, to learn about the Lord, and to learn from each other. Rev. Holder applied what she learned about emotional intelligence across generations and as a result “I believe I have become a better leader and can happily report that we are growing again.” Rev. Holder uses challenge ministries to connect the multiple generations in her church, and the result has been a vibrant change to the culture of the worship community.

 

Creating Connections

You likely have multiple generations in your pews. But are they all as engaged as they could be? Especially your elders and little ones? Do they feel like the service is for them?

And, what about after the service is over? Or throughout the week when shut-ins, especially, can feel cut off and lonely? Feeling a part of their spiritual community is essential to good mental health and happiness.

Let’s look at some effective ways to connect the intergenerational dots:

1) Try pairing older, reading-aged children with seniors for scripture readings or announcements. This gives each of the pair an important role in your service, and your congregation a less structured, more relaxed, experience.

By practicing the readings together, intergenerational bonds of friendship and connection start to grow.

2) If you typically do a “children’s church” lesson, share the practice with some of your senior congregants. Let them choose the lesson and how they’ll present it. Encourage them to be creative and find skills to teach the younger generations.

 3) If you have coffee and donuts after worship in your fellowship hall, gather a youth volunteer team to help. Have them serve your seniors, especially those alone or widowed.

And not just serve them but sit with them and chat! Have them get to know each other as people. 

4) Try a monthly craft time. So many seniors have valuable arts and crafts skills they can teach the children and youth. Then they can share their creations with a local nursing home, or those in the hospital.

Learning the joy of giving is an invaluable gift for a child. One that can last a lifetime.

5) There are many invaluable everyday skills that senior congregants have knowledge of and can pass on. This could look like gardening, baking and cooking, or even teaching the children how to fix a leaky faucet or do a load of laundry.

6) And don’t forget your shut-ins. All of your church’s elders won’t be there on Sundays, in the Fellowship Hall, or engaging in church activities. Have your older children and youth visit shut-ins with the help of parents or guardians. Stress the importance of being good listeners while sharing their own life experiences. They can bring some of the crafts they created as gifts.

Bring the littlest ones along to share their joy. A bubbling baby can turn a shut-in’s lonely day into a cherished memory.

 

Bridging the generation(al) gap can make a world of difference to both ends of your congregation’s age spectrum. And not only for them, but for the health, growth, and transformation of your ministry and congregation. I’d love to hear how these, or your own intergenerational ideas, worked in your church!

Christian ministries are growing and transforming their congregations and communities in amazing ways. Find out more through my free seminar “How Christian Ministries are Achieving Success”.

 

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