What if My Congregation is a Bad Fit?
One Sunday morning a wife is all dressed and ready to go to church. She says to her husband, “Honey, why aren't you ready for church?” “I'm not going,” he said, “and I'll give you three reasons why. One, the sermons are boring. Two, no one likes me, and three, I...
Give Up on Giving Up
In this last installment on what to give up for Lent, beyond donuts and lattes, to things that make a real difference, I have to end this way: Give up giving up! It's become somewhat fashionable to give up on the mainline church. As if all that's left is for the...
Give Up Going to Church
This week of Lent, my suggestion is to give up going to church. Some of you already have. The rest of you may be wondering why on earth I would make this suggestion. Isn’t the whole push for congregational renewal to get people back in to church? Jesus went to...
Give Up Loving Your Neighbor as Yourself
This Lent, I suggest giving up loving your neighbor as yourself. Likely, they deserve better. So do you. Let me start by saying I think the amount of good going on in the world far, far outweighs the bad. For each terrorist, fraudster, bully or thief wreaking havoc,...
Give Up the Golden Rule
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Or, treat others the way you want to be treated. Everyone knows the Golden Rule.With regrets to Jesus and Rabbi Hillel and others who formulated versions of this well-loved principle, there’s just one problem with it....