Strengthen Your Immune System

Strengthen Your Immune System

Wondering how to strengthen your spiritual immune system? You are on the front lines of leadership during the most extensive, swiftest cultural shift the world has ever experienced. Everything has changed. You have been rising to the challenge. Some of you share this as the most rewarding, if not demanding, a chapter of your ministry. It’s time to strengthen your spiritual immune system.

Being on the front lines of leadership and change requires particular inner strength. You know that the coronavirus is not the only thing that can bring you down. Fear of the future, exhaustion, and resisting the way things are can likewise infect you. These negative mindsets weaken the body as well as the spirit.

In this article, I will reveal a simple four-step process to fortify your spiritual immune system. I will also invite you to join me for a class I have designed especially for you. It will empower you to clear out disempowering thoughts, disarm limiting fears, and rethink no-can-do self-talk.

Here’s the bottom line: getting stuck in negative emotions won’t do for spiritual leaders like you. It’s time to boost your resilience so that you can continue to lead with agility and flexibility. Share on X

Four Steps to Spiritual Clarity 

I’m excited to share this four-step process with you. Because here’s the bottom line: getting stuck in negative emotions won’t do for spiritual leaders like you. It’s time to boost your resilience so that you can continue to lead with agility and flexibility.

Step #1: Hear the Word

Start with an uplifting message from Scripture. For instance, consider the simple yet powerful verse from Psalm 118:24: “This is the day the Lord has made, we will rejoice and be glad in it.

Now, put yourself in the picture: “This is the day the Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it.” If this sounds like more of a command than an affirmation, you have picked the right one. The truth is, no one feels like rejoicing all the time. No one is always glad.

Step #2: Listen to Your Soul 

Ask your soul what is getting in the way of your rejoicing or of being glad. Consult the following list of potential barriers and note the ones that apply to you:

  • Worry
  • Self-doubt
  • Blame
  • People-pleasing
  • Busyness
  • Unforgiveness

Step #3: Clear the Pathway 

To clear the pathway back to your soul:

  1. Invite Jesus to hear your list and to listen with compassion.
  2. Read your list out loud, sparing no detail.
  3. Sense the barriers being removed as you fess up.
  4. Light the list afire and offer it up for Divine guidance.

Welcome the Holy Spirit back into the newly cleaned space of your soul.

Step #4: Start the Day Over 

Now that you have cleared the pathway back to your soul, and hopefully back to the space of gladness and rejoicing, it’s time to start the day over! Personalize and recite the psalm so that it sings. Perhaps like this: “Today I rejoice in this day that the Lord has made, I am glad to be alive in it!”

Boost your leadership resilience

To support you in the midst of these rapidly changing times, I have created a new online workshop called Leadership Resilience. These three one-hour sessions will enhance your spiritual, emotional and financial resilience, empowering you to lead these changes over the long haul. Clear out disempowering thoughts, disarm limiting fears, and rethink no-can-do self-talk. You can register here. All sessions are recorded for your convenience.

When Worship is No Longer Building-Based

When Worship is No Longer Building-Based

Christians believe that out of death comes resurrection. Even Christians have been hard-pressed to believe that new life could arise out of this pandemic. Yet that’s what’s happened. Take church buildings, for example. Their size, shape, and cost have shaped our ministry and mindsets for millennia. They have been both a blessing and a burden.

Yet once church buildings had to shut down, congregations found something quite surprising. The change in the nature and scope of worship changed freed people from building constraints.

This article will discuss the shift that has happened and three ways to turn this unexpected gift into a long-term culture shift.

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Pre-Pandemic Mindset: Building-Based Worship 

For many congregations, the building has defined ministry. The building’s upkeep may have been your de facto ministry, and a concept Bishop Robert Schnase calls a shadow mission. When buildings set the parameters, it can be challenging to break free of historical precedents. Ghosts of worshiper’s past, as much as the building’s structure, play a part in reinforcing conventions.

The coronavirus has done for many churches what they could not do for themselves. Not only have congregations been forced out of their buildings, but the size and scope have also changed. Congregations are now moving from building-based to relationship-based worship.

Mid-Pandemic Mindset: Relationship-Based Worship

Now that worship is a distributed experience and is no longer centralized in one building, and can be reinvented. Worship takes a new feel when people worship with mailed bulletins, emailed orders of worship, pre-recorded videos, Facebook Live, or some other fashion. Instead of being solely building-based, worship can become more intimate, more immediate.

When the structure of a sanctuary does not confine, the dynamics of worship can organically morph. Suddenly, the building gives shape to relationships. Those relationships include both person to person and person to divine connections.

Interactive Church can be far more interactive this way. For instance, at an online family Passover Seder I conducted, everyone got up from their seats to open their respective doors for Elijah. If you send out printed bulletins or create home-based worship, be sure to include actions and reflections to engage worshipers.

Authentic When you Livestream worship, gone is the distance between the pulpit and the pew. A camera’s immediacy means the message must be genuine to connect with people, especially for people whose attention spans have shortened due to screen time.

Organic Evangelism Boulevard on Broad UMC, whose “storefront sacramental” worship services formerly attracted a full house of 30, has expanded to 50+ online. Evangelism is so much easier and organic online. Led by Rev. Drew Willson, this congregation has also found that distributed worship has released them to fulfill their vision: “Extending God’s table.”

The shut-down of churches has forced quick shifts in congregational life. There is no guarantee that these quick shifts in mindset will automatically translate into culture shifts. Let’s talk about how to intentionally transform these rapid shifts into positive, sustainable culture shifts.

Turn This Quick Shift Into A Culture Shift

  1. Frame the online experience in favorable terms. Yes, you and your people may be missing each other much. Yes, you may miss your building. Yes, you may miss the freedoms the pandemic has momentarily restrained. However, framing the online experience with gratitude will help you keep this option alive once social distancing has eased.
  2. Expand your options. Once people have online options, they treasure them. Online ministry means your people can participate while traveling, indisposed, sick, or feeling lazy even when face to face worship is once again available.
  3. Extend your shelf life. Unlike starting an additional worship service, which depends on a certain number of people to be considered viable, online worship has an entirely different shelf life. It can be experienced hours or months later and still be fresh.

 

Surprising Culture Shifts for the Church from COVID-19

Surprising Culture Shifts for the Church from COVID-19

For decades all signs have pointed to the decreasing role of religion in American life. Then came the pandemic, and with it, church culture shifts.

Churches, uniquely suited to provide meaning in uncertain times, quickly moved worship online. In the process, congregations filled a sudden need for community. Amazingly, worship attendance surged. Church-hopping became popular once again. This uptick in worship attendance is just one of the surprising gifts of the pandemic. Elsewhere I write about how to turn this quick shift into a sustainable culture shifts.

Today I will highlight another quick shift and unexpected gift the pandemic has brought and how you can anchor it in your congregation’s DNA. Just as importantly, I’m going to tell you about a unique set of three one-hour classes I’ve created to support YOUR resilience. You can continue to lead your congregations on the front line of change.

To fully appreciate this quick shift and unexpected gift, let’s take a look at one of the church’s pre-pandemic mindsets.

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Pre-Pandemic Mindset: Wait Until “They” Tell Us What To Do.

For the last several years, United Methodists have been waiting, rather impatiently, for the General Conference to direct their future. Those quadrennial global proceedings would have answered the question: Will the denomination split into smaller denominations to pursue divergent visions? Or will the denomination stay united, at least in a name? Until an urgent question is addressed, many decisions, including critical missional initiatives, have been delayed.

This isn’t just a national dynamic. The wait-until-they-tell-us-what-to-do approach has hampered congregations at the local level for decades. Congregations often slow down decision-making as they await the arrival of a new pastor. For churches that receive a new leader every three-five years, all this waiting creates two problems. First, the church itself slackens as it defers responsibility for sharing the good news. Second, the community is daily ­­­­­impoverished as the ministry is withheld.

The pandemic has changed that. Not only has General Conference been postponed until 2021, meaning there is no one else upon which to impose decision-making responsibility, but churches have been thrust into a “decide now” dynamic.

Mid-Pandemic Mindset: The Decision Is Ours To Make.

The rapid changes wrought by the need for social distancing have created an immediacy in the church. There is no time to wait for “them” to decide. Instead, churches have sprung into action, all hands on deck, with a refreshing immediacy.

Not only have you offered online to worship, online giving, and online Bible studies, but you have creatively reached out to health care workers, children, parents, the lonely, the sick, and the just plain bored. Church members are moving into action, seeing a need, and filling it. All around you, the community has responded beautifully.

At last, the church has taken ownership of its direction, its ministry, its gospel. It is no longer waiting on some other authority to permit it to be agents of change. It’s as though the church has taken up its mat and walked. It’s a delight to behold.

Necessity is the mother of invention. And this newfound new sense of authority has been refreshing. But will it last?

Turn this Quick Shift into Sustainable Culture Shifts

I will be curious to see if this quick shift turns into a culture shift. Not only has General Conference been delayed by a year, but many Annual Conferences will be postponed as well. This is a good testing ground. In the meantime, churches are free to do what they are called to do: love, pray, worship, minister, lead, and connect.

To anchor this quick shift into the DNA of the congregation, take these three steps:

  1. Celebrate the courageous ministry of the local church. Acknowledge the congregation’s rapid response and decisiveness. Over the next three-twelve months, as you emerge into the new future, don’t let these days and months of ownership go unappreciated. Tell and retell your stories of action, compassion, and bravery.
  2. Discern where else you have been “waiting on them to tell us what to do.” Ask God to show you how you can bring to bear the new mindset of “the decision is ours to make.” You’ll be surprised how renewing this can be. Especially on the heels of this season of effectiveness.
  3. Strengthen the mid-pandemic mindset of ownership. Do this by leading the church to be response-able in ways large and small. Exercising responsibility is like working a muscle—the more you use it, the healthier you’ll get, and the more comfortable you’ll be going forward.

Leader, this season is more marathon than a sprint.

Unexpected Gifts From COVID-19

Unexpected Gifts From COVID-19

COVID-19 has brought with it a flurry of unexpected changes. One month ago, I never would have expected to wear a mask to the grocery store, practice social distancing, or wash my hands incessantly. Life has changed dramatically and there have been some unexpected gifts.

There is an upside, though. Even as people have rapidly incorporated unwelcome habits into their lives, the church has been gifted by the pandemic.

It’s true. The pandemic has managed to kill off some mindsets that no longer served the church. Many of these shifts, decades in the making, happened seemingly overnight.

Over the next several weeks, I will highlight three of these quick shifts and how to turn them into sustainable culture shifts by anchoring them in your congregation’s DNA.

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Pre-Pandemic Mindset: We’ve Never Done It That Way Before 

Do you know the seven last words of the church? “We’ve never done it that way before.” These words of resistance have slowed or stopped many needed changes in congregational life. Those seven words were a sign that tradition had once again triumphed over risk.

However, with the rapid onset of the coronavirus and the changes it necessitated, congregations quickly became aware that the pre-pandemic mindset wouldn’t do. To continue resisting change would mean nothing less than abandoning the church.

Mid-Pandemic Mindset: Whatever It Takes To Stay Together

As church doors shut to slow contagion, congregations took on practices they had resisted for years. Most congregations never dreamed they would launch online worship services, Facebook live, or Zoom Bible studies in a matter of hours or days. Yet, fueled by a deep desire to maintain the church body, congregations adopted a new mindset, “We’ll do whatever it takes to stay together.”

As congregations quickly moved online, they found something somewhat surprising. Worship attendance has grown, not shrunk. The frail and infirm can now worship without bracing the weather, roads, or inaccessible sanctuaries. Visitors can pop in and out at will, reasonably anonymously. The curious can try new forms and styles of services with little risk.

Turn Unexpected Gifts Into A Culture Shift

When face to face gatherings prevail again, will your people still see the need to keep an online presence alive? Will they invest in the tech to upgrade their online presence?

You can’t know for sure now. So, here are three ways to anchor this quick shift in the congregation’s life to become a sustainable shift in culture.

First, name and acknowledge the quick mindset shift that has taken place. Ground this shift in biblical stories such as Abram and Sarai following God’s call into an unknown future. Recall how, along the way, God made a covenant with this couple and changed their names, signifying an essential shift in their connection.

Second, sacralize the quick shift. You’ve already begun by leading Easter services online. Now think ahead to Mother’s Day, graduations, and Pentecost. Plan now for the sacred to come alive in “the diaspora.”

Last week, I led an online Passover Seder for my parents, siblings, partners, and kids. Together we were spread out over seven households in four states. We wouldn’t have gathered together on our own for this holiday. But the pandemic brought out both a creative urge to stay connected and a fun way to accomplish it while commemorating a sacred occasion.

Third, and most importantly, boost your immunity to burnout, fatigue, and isolation. You are at the forefront of leading rapid, unexpected change. While change can be exhilarating, it can also be exhausting. Quick shifts can’t become culture shifts without sustainable leadership at the front.

You are in the midst of significant societal change. Now is the time to lean in with creativity and courage.

How to Create a Culture Shift

How to Create a Culture Shift

At Shepherd of the Hills Church, it’s been a long time since the cries of children interrupted worship. That’s okay with this aging congregation. Although they miss younger people, they appreciate less commotion. If only they could get some responsible families, they’re sure things would look up. They want the pastor to recruit them. But he’s gotten busy lately, bogged down in church meetings that seem to go nowhere. This congregation has tried to start a “Bring a Friend to Worship” Sunday. But newcomers get scared off by the appeals to give, and the red ink in the bulletin. Meanwhile the pews thin out, and a steady stream of funerals keep the pastor hopping. Worship used to include several unknown faces. Not anymore, but at least now everyone knows each other. Lots of time to pray for each other, and to keep the love flowing.

On the surface, this church sounds pretty normal. But dig down a bit and you’ll find a church with no dream other than to survive. How does a church like this create a shift in its culture?

First, let’s take a look at what happens in churches like this.  They develop a bevy of problems like the following eight:

  • shrinking numbers
  • problem people
  • stagnant giving
  • listless worship
  • gutless prayer
  • bait and switch evangelism
  • insulated focus
  • dead-end decision-making

In my work with congregations through Creating a Culture of Renewal, I have noticed that these eight distinct problems are reliable indicators of a church operating without a vision. I believe there is a strong connection between the two.

Vision is key to creating a shift in the culture.  The vision has to be bigger than a church improvement plan, though.  Otherwise, you are back to square one.  You’ll be managing decline rather than creating a sustainable shift in culture.  That requires the courage to Dream like Jesus®.

Here are the four steps a congregation must DARE to undertake:

  1. Dare to have a God-sized DREAM. Jesus dreamed that earth would be a reflection of heaven.
  2. Dare to ALIGN others to the dream. Start with the people around you.  Jesus did. The fishermen, tax collectors, and other people he got on board didn’t have special credentials.  They did however, believe in his big dream.
  3. Dare to REALIZE the dream. Bringing the dream to fruition takes courage. You’ll encounter some road blocks and obstacles, yes.  And, you’ll also encounter people ready to get on board with an energizing dream that makes a true difference.  Jesus and his friends made a huge impact through their healings, feedings, proclamations, and conversations.
  4. Dare to EXPAND out into your community. Your community is eager for you to engage them with love, courage, and creativity.  They long for the Kingdom, even if they don’t put that in words.

The time to dream like Jesus is now.  In my experience, the longer you wait to address the eight dynamics of decline, the more embedded they’ll become and the harder they’ll be to dislodge. Culture shift will be almost impossible.  On the other hand, the sooner you engage a God-size dream, the more hope there is for you and your community! Ready to learn how? Register for the online workshop DARE to Dream Like Jesus® now.

The above blog is excerpted and adapted from Dream Like Jesus:  Deepen Your Faith and Bring the Impossible to Life, © 2019, Rebekah Simon-Peter.

It’s More Blessed to Receive than to Give

It’s More Blessed to Receive than to Give

Last year, I had the opportunity to hear Ed Wingfield, one-time Executive Director of the former Denver Urban League speak on leadership. “Using our current models of leadership, if we’re not careful, a few heroes will rise economically in our community. But no one else will advance. We’ll be in the dubious position of creating victims, so that we can rescue them.”

 

As I listened to him speak, I realized his was a familiar story. We in the church do that too. Most church mission trips are designed to create a level playing field for the “underprivileged” or underserved. Yet adopting the attitude that “we will rescue you because we are great and competent and able—while you are not”—doesn’t level the playing field. It perpetually tips it. Rather, level playing fields come from empowering people to discover their own greatness, competency and ability.

 

With the summer mission trip season upon us, it’s time to re-imagine mission trips. That means discovering the blessing of receiving, not giving. 

 

Years ago, I had been on several mission trips to Rosebud Indian Reservation, home of the Lakota Sioux in South Dakota of “Dances with Wolves” fame. We would paint homes, do minor repairs, and in the evening learn about history, customs and if we were lucky, experience a sweat lodge. We were excited to paint homes and make a difference for “underprivileged” people. We felt good about it. 

 

But I didn’t know how our efforts actually came across until Chesie Lee, an ally and advocate for Native American empowerment let me in on a little secret.  Chesie, who co-facilitated the creation of the Wind River Native Advocacy Center together with members of the Northern Arapaho and Eastern Shoshone tribes, told me a common response to the question: “Who wants to have their house painted this year?” is typically “Nah, I’ve had mine painted 3 years in a row.”

 

All that house painting was for us, not the people who lived in them.  In other words, our focus on giving wasn’t really meeting needs. Yes, we felt blessed to give, but it placed those on the receiving end in a dependent, less-than, victim role.

 

Chesie had seen this dynamic play out over and over.  Several years ago, when she served as the Director of the Wyoming Association of Churches, she realized that mission trips designed to “help” Native Americans didn’t necessarily help. Playing rescuer to Native Americans was ironic since the church had been instrumental in creating the victimization of Native American populations to begin with.

 

Chesie saw that Instead of organizing traditional mission trips to the Wind River Reservation, in which churches would come paint or repair homes, she could invite church groups to come to the reservation to learn from the Native Americans. She could switch the paradigm from rescuer-victim to co-equals.

In this way, Native Americans would be granted the gift of agency. Of moving away from the role of invisible, underprivileged people to real live human beings with something to offer to others. These trips would be for mutual education and uplift.

 

It was a tough vision to communicate. Many churches resisted the idea that coming to receive would be as worthwhile as coming to give. The few who did come discovered something of a new connectedness and a different view of history. They discovered something of the Kingdom within.

 

As you plan summer mission trips this year, ask yourselves these questions:

  1. Will our mission trip create long-term empowerment for those we aim to serve? Or will it leave them dependent on us?
  2. How can this experience be mutual in nature?
  3. What are we willing to receive from the people we are there to serve?

 

This summer consider how you can experience the blessing of receiving by allowing others to give.  Alternatively, you can re-paint homes that don’t really need it.

 

Adapted from the forthcoming book Dream Like Jesus, by Rebekah Simon-Peter, Market Square Publishing, 2019.